Box seats, for sure.
At front center, the "VIP" section, pronounced "veep" in Phu's tongue.
I arrived an hour early as planned not knowing what to expect. Chilly outside and I was a little late. I'm still very confused as to why I'm getting such royal treatment, and am far from taking this all for granted. I was met by the opera director outside his office, and led through a small labrynth of 100-year old brick walls into the opera's 5-star restaurant, somewhere under the auditorium... where I was to order "anything on the menu". He told the waiter to bring two of whatever drink I chose. Red wine.
then a soup so fine it pretty much diffuses into my whole body all at once. I felt stupid cause i had no idea how to tactfully open a shrimp whose head and tail were still attached. and stupid for pairing red wine with seafood. i'm not in the habit of thinking of these things... but he fixes the shrimp for me.
all the time I don't really have to talk much because we have so little common ground in language.
his cell phone rings a few times to the tune of 'my heart will go on.' i really don't get it. for someone so cultured...
i worried a little that he was getting some kind of romantic ideas. but not too much, because my instincts told me he didn't have any alterior motives, and i was just too busy enjoying it all.
he shows me the lounge on the mezzanine, with ceilings probably 30 feet high... I'd seen it before, but just let him give me the tour. then he plays me a song or two on the piano, again one of which is a rendition of My Way... glancing out the window, i notice christmas lights I'd seen a couple weeks ago, a complete coincidence, they spelled "MY WAY" across the top of a building opposite the opera house. I'd forgotten about them and am now overwhelmed by the phenomenon of it all.
The whole thing was pretty much paradise.
We make our way into the "VIP" box, and a beautiful man in makeup and colorful silk robes begins the performance, singing to classical instrumentation. Where voice leaves off, a voice-like instrument picks up seamlessly.
This is by far the most beautiful music I've heard in my time in southeast Asia.
it would have been perfect except that halfway through the 2.5-hour-no-intermission play, Phu begins trying to explain everything to me, as all of it's sung/spoken in Vietnamese. What he's saying makes Absolutely No Sense to me. I pick up on the words he's saying but not how they run together. And he keeps repeating himself even after I lie: 'i understand, ok, yes'. it's exhausting me after he begins repeating things 8-10 times. cause I just want to watch the performance. i don't know what kind of answer he wants... i excuse myself and go to the restroom.
i make it back just before the final scene.
and it turns out my instincts are correct: he offers to drive me home or help me get a taxi.
and offers me dinner again tomorrow (now today...) which I decline as his company is becoming tedious, and I'm not sure how I feel about this infinite generousity.
I felt like the lucky number drawn in the lottery and didn't want the novelty to wear off. I may see him again tonight at the same jazz club instead...
My hunch is that in Vietnam you are offered things beyond belief until you return with a firm No.